Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Catherine Wheaton Haven Ainley with the following comment:
I am very involved with my family tree research and this is a grave belonging to ancestors of mine. (Joseph Hefford Ainley was the nephew of my great, great Grandfather). As I am in Australia, it is very difficult for me to visit the cemetery, but would love copies of the photo's you have of this grave. Many thanks, for the kind work that you are doing - much appreciated.Kind regards,Denise Douglas